When you have kids from a previous marriage, dating is not often the easiest thing to maneuver. You come as a package deal… kids are still attached to the idea of you getting back with their father… different personalities… wariness of adults around your kids, etc. So when I met Captain, I made sure I took my time, looked left and right, and left and right again, checked for any dangers or blind spots, and then truly crossed the road. Four years later, I’m glad I did because this man is truly a blessing.
I could sit and list all his wonderful qualities but I think his approach in asking me for my hand in marriage shows the kind of man he is. đ
Upon arrival in Iceland, we took off for the town of VĂk, where Captain had scheduled a horseback riding tour for us on Reynisfjara Beach. Knowing that this was one of my favorite spots from our last visit, he made this special place the background of his proposal. He expressed his love for me and shared beautiful observations and thoughts of my family and our life together. It was very humbling to hear his words and so satisfying to be able to echo the same love back.
But that’s not where he ended. He asked me to keep the engagement quiet until our return because he wanted to talk with my kids and involve them in what would be a second proposal.
So when we returned to Miami, I left to run some errands while he had a heart to heart with my kids. Captain shared how he adored them and wanted them to be part of his declaration of commitment and love to me. They came up with a crafty little scavenger hunt that I would find on my return.
Little cards with clues and messages were spread around the house leading me finally to my bedroom, in which a final card and my ring were displayed on my bed. My babies were dressed up, grinning from ear to ear, and waiting with champagne to toast to this moment. They showered me with kisses and affection, while Captain again repeated how he loved and wanted a life with us forever.
There isn’t a single thing in this world that means more to me than my family. He gets it- and embraces it. Can you kinda see why I think he’s so marvelous? đ
I’ve come such a ways since my divorce….
Love, Captain Athena
This is beautiful!!! Congratulations, Athena. âŁď¸
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Thanks! đ
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Congratulations!! So happy for you. Captain sounds like a great man, who is smart enough to realize what a gem he has in you. Yeay!
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Thank you, amiga! Didnât think Iâd find a man like him after coming from such heartbreak. But I guess i had to earn my dues. Lol!
Howâs your home and boating coming along? đ
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My home is finished (aside from painting, which I’m convinced is never done). I’m sailing on weekends now, working towards becoming a captain myself, thanks to encouragement from my own Captain. I’m a long way from my happily ever after, but closer every day.
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Right on! Way to go, Captain! Well done. Iâm so, so happy for yâall. Itâs like winning the lottery, isnât it?. May yâall be blessed with much love and happiness. đđ
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Thank you so much! It sure is. But you already know that since youâve been love rich for a long time! đ
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Hahaha! Thatâs true. Iâd wish the same for you both. Now, does this mean you move to the Keys? If so, Iâm super, uber jealous! đđ
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Weâll keep everything as is for awhile. Then maybe at some point Iâd consider it. Lol! Right now itâs more of a show of commitment. đ Keys are great but, boy, can it be slow if youâre not out on a boat…
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Congratulations what a far away you’ve come from when I first started reading with you super happy for you and your new family
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Thanks! Definitely a big difference. Very much made me think of you and your happiness with your hubby now. Xo
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I am really happy and you are too. We could have bet all was over, and now look, you should re-name your blog – “Move on with me” “Best after Divorce with me” “I made it” âŚ.. lol! I’m truly happy for you guys, and love the inspiration you provide for others that the worst can be the best if you just open yourself to the possibilities.
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Thanks, Laura!! đâ¤ď¸
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Awwwwwwww!!
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Hello! Oh my god! I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *huggggggsss*
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Thanks, my dear!!!!! Happy girl over here! đ đđđ
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Ok. So. Iâm so happy I read this in my house and not while out at a cafe or something. Iâm not a crier, generally. But damn. Thereâs a ton of happy for you. Tons and tons. Thereâs also a bit of sad for me, because I havenât had any of that, in a very long time, and itâs very hard to see being that lucky. Iâm so so so happy you found captain. That he involved your kids isnât just special- itâs something my dad (heâs a counsellor and works a lot with blended families) suggests- because they were there first. Itâs important they know they have a big part of the pie. Beautifully done. Iâm so happy for you.
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Aw, shucks, thanks! I appreciate the very meaningful comment about the kid involvement and happiness for me. I wish I could hug you in person. I hope you enjoy your weekend of freedom. đâ¤ď¸
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OMG!! FELICITACIONES!!! I’m never on here anymore and I just happened to pop in to my blog email just to see what was happening around here and I saw your posts. Much blessings, more love and more happiness to you, Captain and the kids. xx
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Thank you, my friend!!! It is SO wonderful to hear from you! Thank you for the love. I hope you are doing great! Besitos!!
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You got this!
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Thanks!!! đâ¤ď¸
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Wonderful news. So happy for you darling. xx
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Thank you! How have you been?! â¤ď¸
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I really well thank you my friend. Will be writing updates in due course. Determined to get back into good habits. Miss my WP buddies đ
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Yay! Congratulations! You truly deserve it.
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