Initially, I was going to use this page to introduce myself as a newly separated woman with kids. My husband told me in September 2014 he was miserable and wanted a divorce, blah, blah, blah.
No more.
See “Why I’m Doing This” for my synopsis on how I got here. This will be about me.
So, I have to give you at least this…I’m in my mid-thirties and was a real estate professional for 10 years. I left my job a few years ago to care for my youngest and then decided to switch careers. Now I’m a teacher.
I’m a mother of two elementary aged children. My kids are my life. I try not to be helicopter mom but I am obsessed with them.
I am generally a happy and optimistic person. I love talking to people and making new friends. I probably talk too much but we all have flaws, right? I love to read and dance and travel. Not things I’ve done a lot lately but it’s not too late!
I’ve taken up running again and found it to be a wonderful and healthy experience for my mind, body and soul. I ran my first half marathon in January 2015!
I have an AMAZING family. I’m Cuban American, live in Miami and have an incredibly supportive network of family and friends. I will say that although a divorce can make you feel lonelier than you’ve ever felt before, it can also show you just who truly loves you and is “Ride or Die”. I’m so blessed to be loved by such loyal people.
Pardon my grammatical errors and the sometimes strange lingo I use. Hopefully, you’ll learn to love me as I am. 🙂
Thank you for taking the time to learn a bit about me. I hope to learn more about you soon!
Athena
Thank you for your follow. Looking forward to learn more about you 🙂
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Thank you as well! 🙂
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I’m sorry you have to go through this but appreciate the humor (dark as it may be at times) in your writing. Glad you found something productive and healthy (like running) to help you deal with this. I wish you much love, peace and happiness as you begin this new year.
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Thank you so much for the kind words. 🙂 I’m trying my best. I keep telling myself that in terms of this situation, it could be worse. Doesn’t hurt less but it helps keep my perspective in place. I wish you a wonderful new year as well! 🙂
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Look forward to hearing about your journey
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Same here!
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Enjoyed your reading posts and the humor 🙂 I can only wish you a beautiful New Year full of cheer and joy 🙂
Regards.
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Thank you! *blush* 🙂
I wish you the same!
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There is a positive vibe in your bio, nicely written 🙂
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Thanks! Sometimes i wear myself out with the “mopey”ness and remind myself there’s actually pleny to be grateful for. 🙂
Btw, love the blog name “4 year old adult” 🙂
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We must focus upon the good things of life, the bad things are not in our control. This is the best way to live 🙂
The kinky name of my blog has given me a handful of questions. Good to know that you liked it 😉
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Agreed! (Negativity is an easy trap, too. Must fight, must conquer!) 🙂
And that is awesome! The name immediately makes me like you, honestly, lol!
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I write only during the emotional turbulence. The name of the blog was chosen randomly. Unlike my blog’s name, your appears thoughtful 🙂
Thank you for liking a 4 year old 😉
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Lol, well, sometimes random works!
Look forward to reading your posts. Getting it out during the emotional turbulence works very well… 🙂
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Emotional turbulence is a breeding ground for every form of art 🙂
Keep blogging
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as a fellow divorcee now re-married, I am already loving your blog as new as I am to it! xo
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Aw, thanks! It’s nice to hear that post divorce you’ve created such a great life for yourself! You are a kick ass gal! 💪
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As are you my friend!!
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¡Mucho gusto Vecina! YOU.ARE.AWESOME!
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☺️ thank you!! I can’t wait to read up on you! (LOVE the name… Panzona!) xo
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I know you’ve been nominated for this already but I said what the heck, i enjoy reading your blog. I have nominated you (again) for the Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award, you can check it out on my blog https://itrytoblog101.wordpress.com/2015/01/28/sisterhood-of-the-world-bloggers-award/
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Wow! What an honor!! Thank you so much! Love your blog so it’s wonderful to hear you like mine! ❤️❤️❤️
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Hi Athena,
I nominated your blog for an award. Please don’t feel obligated to join in, but it’s a nice way to meet other bloggers:
https://weight2lose2013.wordpress.com/2015/03/13/the-cba/
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Eek! Thank you, Rob! I’m sooooooo flattered!!! What a pleasant surprise to read right now! 🙂
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I was looking for things to read and came across your blog. You are hilarious, I read your first story and by the time I knew it I was reading the sixth one. I will be taking your online dating advice, that is good stuff for guys without a clue….like me. Looking forward to more funnies!
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LOL! Thanks for the awesome comment! I can’t wait to learn more about you! 🙂
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Well, Athena, you’re up! Please don’t feel obligated.
https://weight2lose2013.wordpress.com/2015/05/17/supernova-haiku/
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I accept! I will do tonight! 🙂 Thanks for thinking of me!
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Great! I’m looking forward to it, Athena. I forgot to post the rules, just check todays post and the rules are there. Just one poem/story per day for five days. It’s fun!
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Hello, we crossed emails for I nominated you for The Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award. Please go to https://annermurray.wordpress.com/2015/05/21/nomination-and-award-for-the-sisterhood-of-the-world-blogger-award/ for details. Congratulations and you deserve it.
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Thank you!!! I’m very flattered!! 🙂 xo
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Hi nice to meet you! I have 9 kids and they are my life as well!
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Nine kids! You are amazing! And you are so nice! Lol! I think I’d be a crazy woman with so much going on. Wait, I am a crazy woman and I only have two! Lol! 😉 All jokes aside, it’s lovely to hear you are a fabulous mom and adore your kids. ❤️
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Ha ha thanks! It was great to read your story and nice for you to share although hard I am sure!
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HI
Thanks so much the follow
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My pleasure! You’re fun and funny. 😉
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Why thank you 😀
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Great read. I’m in the same boat. Thanks for writing.
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Hi Tikeetha! Thanks a bunch! It can be so challenging at times, right? I’m sorry you’re in the same boat. Xo
Thanks for stopping by!
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Hey Athena, so nice to meet you around here! I guess most of us find our expression through writing, I know I did. So glad you joined us all.
I will stick around to read more about your journey! So glad to have found you.
Lots of love,
Zee ❤
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Hi! Soooo nice to meet you as well! Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I look forward to reading up on you as well! Xoxoxo
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It was a pleasure going through your blog, Can’t wait to read more from you !
I guess I will be seeing you around 🙂
Have a fantastic day ahead 🙂
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HI
I have nominated you for the Dragon Loyalty Award, participition is purely voluntary, you can find details here
https://itsgoodtobecrazysometimes.wordpress.com/2015/09/30/the-dragon-loyalty-award/
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At least you have a safety net to fall back on. Cherish them. Not everyone is as lucky as you.
I like the authenticity of your ramblings. It sound like real life. I have enough of make believe worlds in cyber space. All perfect and shiny. We all know that it is never like that in reality. So, keep doing what you’re doing and I wish you success.
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Thanks, I really appreciate your comment. I’m in no way perfect and hope others find my venting relatable. I certainly found it helpful when I came across others going through the same thing. Almost like a guide. 🙂
I’ve tried to keep my perspective in place throughout this process. I know I’m luckier than most going through a divorce. It could be worse and I have a wonderful support group with family and friends. Thanks for the reminder and sweet wishes. I too wish you all the best. 🙂 xo
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Athena, very nice to meet you and thank you very much for following my blog. I will take time to read more about you through your posts. I hope your day is a happy one. 🙂
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Likewise! Glad I found your blog. 🙂 thanks for the note; I appreciate it!! Hope you have a great day as well!
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HI
Just to let you know, I have mentioned you in my weekly links here. Have a good week
https://itsgoodtobecrazysometimes.wordpress.com/2016/01/05/lifestyle-part-4/
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Wow, thanks! I’m flattered and really appreciate it! 🙂 xo
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Most welcome
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Thanks for dropping by and deciding to follow. Welcome aboard. Hope you find some things here of interest.
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Hi
I have nominated you for the sisterhood of the world award, its purely voluntary but if you do want to join in the details are here
https://itsgoodtobecrazysometimes.wordpress.com/2016/01/10/sisterhood-of-the-world-award/
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Thanks, amiga! Xo 🙂 ❤️❤️❤️
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It sounds like we have somethings in common! I love writing, dancing, reading, traveling and I have a son. Be the obsessed mom, my baby is about to be 18 and the time flies by. I know people say it all the time but guuurrrrrrrlllll, it’s soooo true! Look forward to reading more! 🙂
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Thanks, my friend! I look forward to getting to know you as well. I’m glad we have much in common. 🙂 xoxo
(Wow, 18?! I’ll be bugging you one day for teen advice! Lol!)
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Yes, I am actually close to your age but was a young mom as you can read here… http://gingerfunksblog.com/2016/01/03/a-mothers-love-%E2%9D%A4/
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So I just started following your blog but I really enjoy it and would like to nominate you for the bloggers award. Please check out this post for the info on what to do http://gingerfunksblog.com/2016/01/21/blogger-award/
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Wow! Thank you!!! I’m so flattered!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Hi Athena, I wanted to let you know that I’ve closed my blog, but started another. You can find me here if you wish:
https://forfriendswithoutborders.wordpress.com/2016/02/20/a-new-beginning/
Thanks,
Rob
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You have my admiration. I look forward to learning about your world. I was in Miami in March. Loved the Cuban coffee!
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Aw, thanks, Lori! Such a pleasure to meet you! I look forward to getting to know you! Glad you enjoyed the cafe cubano! Xo
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Your blog is really fascinating, i read a few posts and they captured my read attention to the very last sentence. Im quite in awe of the site you run here, one of my favourates honestly. Almost all the post got me all smiles.staying tuned for more. ☺ – Cezane
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Awww, you’re making me blush! Thanks for the really thoughtful compliments! I’m honored to be amongst your faves! 😘
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I nominated you for the Sunshine Blogger Award. You can check it out here
https://bigandpinkytoes.wordpress.com/2016/05/11/sunshine-blogger-award/
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Woot woot! Awesome blossom!! Thank you for the recognition! I’m flattered by the nomination! 🙂 ❤️
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Hello again~ I nominated your blog for a Sunshine Blogger award.
https://akinderway.com/2016/05/11/lots-of-award-love/
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Hi Nikki! Thank you so much for this! I am so flattered and proud to be nominated! I appreciate you understanding the lack of participation… Lol! But please know it certainly means a bunch to me that you think highly of my blog. ❤️
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Absolutely. I haven’t participated in everything. I also don’t nominate my husband because it wouldn’t fit with his blog. It’s all about spreading the love…and nothing about pressure! 🙂
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I look forward to reading your blog. I just got divorced after 12 years and two kids. Having a hard time with it!
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I’m very sorry to hear this. I look forward to getting to know you as well. Going through divorce has been the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I wish you lots of luck. It’s a great community of friends here and I welcome you to get to know some of the other lovely women out here that have had the misfortune of divorce. ❤️
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