After 8 months of dating, we made it happen. Captain met my kids on Halloween!
And it went GREAT!
He brought them each a little gift to butter them up. They played superhero imagination games together. Then we had a nice home cooked meal at my house together. (My kids behaved like angels! I was shocked!)
He was such a great sport. My son was Batman, my daughter and I Batgirl and he dressed up as the Joker!
We then went trick or treating together! The kids were so excited to hang out with him, they took turns asking to hold his hand. (They’re 3 & 6.)
The kids gave him huge hugs before he left and asked him to come back the next day. They commented to me afterward how much they enjoyed hanging out with him and how awesome he was.
Captain soon after called me to tell me he had a wonderful time and felt like he loved me even more after meeting them.
It couldn’t have gone any better. I am so grateful. (And relieved!) π
XO – Athena
Great setting for an introduction …Children want their parents to be happy, have a sixth sense when it comes to matters of the heart!
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Thank you! They sure do know when things are good (and bad)!
And I love Halloween and all the festivities behind it so it really worked out. π
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They can tell. Sounds like they approve. That’ll make life easier, that’s for sure! π
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Yes, I think I breathed the biggest sigh of relief ever! π thank you!
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This was a sweet post for me dear! I loved the pictures and hearing it went so well! Lovely!
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Thank you! π I am so happy! β€οΈ
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You look happy!!
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Too awesome!!!
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Thanks!! π (happy dance!)
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This is a fantastic post! I’m glad everything seems to be falling into place with you! I know you’re crazy proud of your children and you want them to be just as comfortable and happy as you are!
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Good start, I’m proud your taking it slow & easy for the kids. Good move.
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Thank you, Laura! It really does seem like things can work out well even after divorce with kids. Sometimes I can barely believe it. I hear other people like you that have made it work and it is very encouraging. π thanks for the support. xo
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I have my happy ever after, now your getting yours too. We can survive & be better after divorce!
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True!!! It’s possible! π xoxoxo
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Yay! *throwing confetti in the air* I’m so glad Capitan met the kids and they welcomed him that way. Glad for you! xx
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Thanks, KC! I appreciate the fun way you’re celebrating with me!! π I’ve been on cloud 9! π xoxo
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Yay, fantastic news ! Keep them coming … π
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Thanks for the support! π xo
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How wonderful, that’s a big step, so it’s awesome that it went so well!
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Thanks! Pretty relieved that this is now one less first to have to deal with. π xo
How have you been? How’s your new job? How was Halloween for you?
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I have to tell you how impressed I am with you waiting so long to introduce him to your children. It’s a true example of how to put your children’s well-being first! What a super mom you are! So glad everything went well.β€οΈ
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Aww, thanks! I really wanted to make sure the kids were ready to meet my “friend” and that him & I were rock solid. Men can be so fickle that I felt it better to be gunshy than trigger happy. π Many thanks for the supportive and kind words… Means a lot. I know how you are with your kids so I don’t take the compliment lightly. π xoxo
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Awesome Athena! Glad the kids took right to him I’m sure that made him feel more at ease. Eight months already, wow time flies!
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Thanks, bud! I’m so glad everything went well; I felt good about it beforehand. But felt like gold afterwards! (And, yes, 8 months already! Crazy!)
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That is great news
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Thanks!! π Really happy with the outcome! I thought of you and how you said you waited a good bit of time as well. Thanks for the support.
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I am just so pleased it worked out
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π thanks xo
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Wow, sounds like a really well-handled first introduction. So glad it went well.
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Thanks, Jay! It’s really nice to get such great feedback. Thanks for visiting! Nice to meet you!
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So glad for you! It looks and sounds like you had a blast π
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Thanks! I sure did! π xo
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Uve got a really interesting corner out here…
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Awww, thanks! π so nice to meet you! Xoxo
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The super hero family π
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π thx! Lol!
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