I got shingles, y’all! *slow clap*
It’s kinda fun to say. Shhhh… ingles? Sh-ing-les. Sh-in-gulls. Shin-gals. Shhhhh. Whatever. I got it.
Apparently, you don’t need to be over 60 to have it.
Those effers have been living in my nerve cells latent for 33 years and decided to pop in for an uninvited visit this week. Bastards.
I’m annoyed because I’m not stressed and this is usually the cause of onset. I’m actually on summer break from teaching and having a lovely time!
Only thing I can think is maybe my brain is creeping behind my back and subversively worrying about finances?
Grayheart, my ex-husband, recently quit his long-term, secure job. Why? No good reason. He hated his job and wanted to pursue his business ventures in the restaurant industry is pretty much why. Idiot.
It’s not my business what he does as long as he parents well and pays for his child support. He will continue to pay his child support as-is but I just don’t trust him. So on a teacher’s salary, you can understand why I might quietly fret? Anyway, I’m pushing it out of my mind and just focusing on the now and not the “what if” of the situation. I didn’t think it was bothering me enough to cause me trouble but it’s possible that my body is just tired of constantly fighting everything over the last 3 years? (This shingles thing is his fault, of course.)
As a side note, Grayheart broke up with Raggedy Ann. I think this is the fifth time? π (I met her, by the way. Another story, another time. Nothing exciting.)
Oh! And he then immediately got a vasectomy. I think Raggedy was hinting at wanting her own kids. Lmao!
I know, petty. But, fuck, I’m dealing with shingles! Cut me some slack!
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So… back to me. Life is pretty damn good right now. I’m heading to the Turks & Caicos in a couple of weeks with Captain. He and I are wonderful! I’m still gushy in love. β€οΈ My kids are fantastic and I’ve been doing so many fun things with them this summer! I’ve kept to my resolution of reading a book a month and have been reading the Outlander novels! (And love them!) I’m back to running again after a very long hiatus! And I’ve got 5 more weeks of summer break! Woohoo! Life will be all good again once I’m back to normal. ππ½
Hope everyone is enjoying their summer! (Or winter for you Southern Hemisphere folks!)
π Athena
Hey! Glad to hear you’re doing well….minus the shingles thang. Don’t be a stranger, man. And enjoy that trip to the Caribbean. ππ€π»
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Thanks, buddy! Hope you guys are doing well! π
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Ha! Oh, ya’ know, just livin’ the dream. π
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Oh dear, so sorry to hear about the shingles. I’m so glad to hear that despite that, u mAnage to keep a positive mindset. That helps so much. Treat yourself well, we all love you.
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Thanks, beautiful lady! π Gotta keep moving… lol! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ love ya!
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Recover well, lady. My grandmother had shingles this winter and it took a lot out of her. I had shingles IN MY EYE once. That’s terrible. Not recommended.
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Oh my… your eye?! That’s awful! I will avoid at all costs, lol! π
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Have a great summer and I hope your shingles clear up fast. π
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Thanks, amiga! Have a great summer as well! π
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Oh wow. Been there! What an awful trick for your body to play. I love this post. You’re in such a good place. Your ex is a turd.
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Turd is a great word. π© π
Of course you’ve had shingles too! Seems like all us greats have, right? π But we survive!!! ππ½
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I enjoyed reading your post…made me laugh βΊοΈ
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Lol! Thanks! Have to have fun with what life gives you, right? π
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Yup, very much.
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My ex had me breaking out in hives on my neck! LMBOOOO! But with time and stress/anxiety management, i.e. not giving two fucks about him or his heffa, the hives went away…lol.
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I got hives, too, at the beginning! And started to lose my hair. Whew. So glad that part of the stage is over! Lol!
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Shingles? Boooooo! How long is it expected to stay around for? Get better soon!
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Ugh. Hopefully one more week
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I got shingles right after I got married and kept getting them until we seperated. So i know your pain!! Feel better!
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Oh my! I’m glad you’re done getting it!!
And thank you, luckily, I’m better! π xo
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Sorry to hear about your shingles. My dad, who was always in perfect health, got shingles right before my wedding. I think the universe was sending me a message about my upcoming marriage, but sadly I didn’t listen. π¦
Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
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How funny and odd how so many people have suffered from it too! Universe was totally sending you a message… lol. I wish we had all understood these signs better! β€οΈ
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Ouch. Poor you. Hope itβs cleared up. How ace are you… being upbeat about something like this… I love you spirit. xx
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Lol, I feel like this whole post divorce process really pushes us to either cry our hearts out or laugh to avoid crying! π
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