Today is my 10th anniversary.
The traditional gift for your tenth anniversary is aluminum. He can have this foil ball as my present to his dumb ass.
Grayheart and I were discussing some things over the phone about the kids. He looked at the calendar and remarked, “Oh! Happy anniversary!”
He thought he was funny.
So I responded, “Yes! I’m so glad we made it to ten years!” in a completely fake sugary sweet cheerleader voice.
He didn’t think it was funny anymore.
Asshole.
Strangely nothing.
But I sure as hell haven’t forgotten he started screwing Raggedy Ann on our anniversary last year.
But no pain. No sadness. Just nothing.
So tonight I’m celebrating my freedom with one of my best friends that’s known me a hella long time.
Here’s to Throwback Thursday!
Salud! π·πΈπΊ
XO
Happy un-iversary daaaahling. *hugs*
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πππ thanks!!!! Lol!
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Salud to good riddance asshole and hello there Captain ππΈ
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Cheers!!!! π
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You made it ! ππ°πππ
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Woot woot! Yay!! (Great use of emojis! Lol!) Thanks! π
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Your welcome π
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Happy New Beginning!!! Cheers!! π»
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Thanks, my friend! π π
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Absolutely! π
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Glad you are doing well!!
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Thanks, Lynn! Hope you’re well, too! Xo
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xo
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Unless you have one of those “rare” relationships, where you and your ex are best friends, or really close…I know couple of people like that… but they ended things for other reasons not an affair… they could joke like that.
Most divorced/separated people would not joke about an anniversary. In fact, each other would be secretly hoping the other doesn’t realize the date.
When does one get over being “angry” over bein cheated on? There should be a support group for that…like AA…but POW…as in pissed off women are going to punch you in the face POW.
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POW! That’s brilliant!! I’m all for it. Consider me member #1!
We have a strangely amicable relationship. I feel like it’s pretty much like our marriage was. A mutual understanding of each other with respect but at edge of getting ready to send each other to hell. And then getting back to normal. It’s weird. Lol
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Eventually, you get there. π Especially as the kids get older and you have less and less exposure to one another. When the kids are teenagers, they will want to be less around the folks and constantly with their buddies. Especially, once they start driving… unless you’re the “hang out’ house. There was 1 gal in our group that we all hung out at her place because her dad let us control the tv. He loved having the house filled with all us girls. (the mom had passed when my friend was in 10th grade) so… it was nice. Between work and my friends, my mom and step dad rarely saw me and I never saw my dad.
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Sounds like a fun childhood. π
I think our hope for a good relationship for the kids will win and eventually the anger and hurt will subside. So, yes, I think we’ll get there! Xo
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And thanks! I enjoy hearing your advice and sharing your stories. π
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Hey don’t forget about the poor guy that got cheated on!!!!!
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Great that you’re at a point where you feel nothing. I think. ..
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Lol, yup. Let’s hope it lasts! π thx!
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Happy Un-Anniversary by the time my rolled around I wouldn’t care if my ex was captured by ISIS!
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LMAO! You kill me with your colorful comments! πππ
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Don’t even get me started on that evil woman. Better than good chance I’m getting rolled in court now. The GAL report was so one sided and biased I don’t even know why I wasted my time. She basically stole 500 dollars from me!
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wow what an arsehole.
Happy glad to be rid of the aresehole day
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Lol! Thanks! Good description! π
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Enjoy marking a new anniversary: freedom.
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Thanks! To freedom fighters! π
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(In a good way… Not fighting freedom but fighting for freedom. Lol!)
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Very selfish of him. Good riddance.
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Thx! π Felt good not really caring this time around.
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I know. That’s a big hurdle. We never know how long it will take to get over it.
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